Saturday, October 27, 2012

Sesi suaikenai adik abang : )


Bila I dapat tau jer yg I pregnant 2nd baby.. terus jer I googling pasal nk mengambil hati elder child in family to accept new coming baby. Maklum laa.. my lil' prince dah almost 5years old this year.. lama sgt kot bermaharajalela dlm family kecil kami.. tetiba ada org baru muncul.. risau laa I mcmana my son punya reaction nanti.. Jgn memberontak yg bukan2 sudah laa sayang oii... huhuhu

Start from 1st trimester lagi.. I kena guna cara yg lembut bgtau dekat my son that he's going to be a brother soon.. Teringat lagi the very 1st time I bgtau dekat Darwisy.. dia terus ckap.. 'Umi ckap apa nih..? Umi ckp apa nih..?" soalan yg sama diulang dgn memek muka yg x pueh ati.. seolah2 mcm I ckp merepek dgn dia.. adeii laa..

Luckily my younger sister dah pun beranak awai tahun lepas, so Darwisy dah mula terbiasa dgn kehadiran new baby (his cousin) in our family. Mula2 jumpa, dekat pun xnak.. tp dah makin kerap jumpa.. bb pun makin besar.. lama2, they can get along together.. bole main sama2 dah.. since his cousin is a gal.. Darwisy ckp.. dia nk adik bb dlm perut Umi gal mcm adik Diya jugak.. memandangkan awal lg dat time.. jantina pun blom tau.. Umi can only pray and wish the same also.. InsyaAllah..

Sepanjang pregnancy.. kerap jugak laa I mintak my son berbual sepatah dua dgn bb dlm tummy Umi.. ada time bila I rasa terkejut or sengal sbb bb bergerak.. terus jer Darwisy ckp..'adik bb dok diam2 naa.. jgn bagi Umi sakit'.. hehehe.. concern oOoo my son ni pasal Umi dia.. dat time mmg dah nmpak talent Darwisy makin bersedia nk menjadi seorang abang..

Bila dah masuk 3rd trimester.. debaran nk tgk reaction abg berjumpa si adik for the 1st time pulak.. ok ke dia nanti.. So I keep reminding myself and hubby.. bila bb baru dah keluar.. jgn terlampau excited smpai terlupa my son.. kalo bole prioritize him 1st pun xper.. sbb bb baru nanti blom lagi paham apa2 and x tau pun nk tunjuk emotion kan.. so we both as parents kena laa berhati2 menjaga hati our son ni.. takut nanti dia rasa terpinggir or terabai.. terus dia buat hal yg bukan2.. lagi laa penat nk melayan nanti.

Dlm keadaan sarat.. sempat jugak I bershopping present for both my children ni.. tp shopping online jer laa.. main tekan button jer.. bukan penat apa pun.. hehehe.. present ni actually.. kononnya sbg tanda perkenalan abg & adik nanti laa.. saja jaa I nk buat my son happy and excited.. I suh my son pilihkan wrapping paper.. then dia sendiri yg balutkan that present (dgn bantuan Umi la kan).. Present tu disimpan dan bakal diberi pada adik bila sampai masanya nanti..

Alhamdulillah doa kami dimakbulkan.. bb baru yg lahir adalah bb gal spt yg diharapkan.. Memandangkan I berkampung di Pantai Hospital 3 hari 2 malam.. my bb plak dijaga dlm bb room berasingan dari my ward.. my son x berkesempatan laa nk berjumpa dgn his sister secara dekat.. tgk kat luar cermin jer.. balik rumah.. terus jer Darwisy cbok2 tanya bila nk bg present dekat adik bb.. mmg dia sgt excited.. hehe.. disebabkan Umi masih lagi x brapa ok.. bb pun still kecik lagi.. so kitorang posponed laa for a week time.

Sampai laa hari yg dinanti.. jom kita layan picas.. tgk mcmana excited nya si abang dgn si adik..


Darwiys : Adik bb.. abang ada surprise utk adik..
 
Darwisy : Surprise..!! Present ni abg yg balut tau.. tp Umi yg beli..
 
Darwisy : Adik dok diam2 naa.. abg nk bukak present utk adik..
 
Darwisy : Tadaaa... adik suka x..?
Muka adik tu nmpak cam hepi jer kan..
 
Skrg ni adik tgh buat muka kelat bila sea horse dah mula glowing and mainkan bunyi2an
 
Adakah adik terlampau suka & hepi sampai buat aksi gangnam style.. hahaha
 
Eh.. Eh.. bukan adik sorang jer yg dpt surprise.. rupanya abg pun dpt surprise jugak dari adik..
 
 
Darwisy : Tenkiu adik bb.. sbb bagi present dkt abg..
 
Darwisy : Abg nk bukak skrg laa present nih.. naper x balut adik..?
Adik : x sempat laa abg.. dok kalut nk kluar dari perut Umi..
hahaha..  
 
Darwisy : yeay.. abg dapat Doctor medical kit.. naper x dpt lori ker.. kapal terbang ker..?
Adik : kena tanya Umi laa.. sbb Umi yg beli.. adik ikut jer..
Umi : Sebab Umi nk anak Umi jadi Doktor.. tp dia nk jadi Pilot or pengusaha bidang pengangkutan terbesar.. saja jer Umi bagi hint suh tukar ambition.. hahaha
 

Friday, October 26, 2012

Salam Aidil Adha..

We would like to wish all our Muslim friends, families & readers a blessed Aidil Adha. May Allah rewards us with peace, health and filled our life with joy.. Amin..



Sincerely..

Abi.. Umi.. lil' Darwisy.. & Bb Raina..

 
 
Bb Raina in her 1st Raya gaun..
 aksi yg normal skrg ni.. tdo nyenyak dgn mulut terbuka.. iskk iskk
 
close up little sunshine on her 21st day..

Sunday, September 30, 2012

Bezanya 1st time vs 2nd time

Saat ni aku dah pun melepasi minggu ke 39.. betul laa kata org.. setiap pengalaman ibu mengandung dan melahirkan anak adalah berbeza.. sungguh x sama.. kalo dulu masa mengandungkan my lil'Darwisy.. alhamdulillah.. tersangat laa mudah.. xder rasa alah.. makan laa segala mak nenek.. x rasa penat berjalan or buat aktiviti apa2 pun.. smpai minggu ke 38 tiba2 jer terus turun tanda (sedikit darah)..

Perjalanan ke hospital pun tanpa sebarang debaran.. x tau pun nk rasa mcmana sbb xpernah tau rasa sakit bersalin mcmana kan.. siap makan epal lagi.. sampai di pintu hospital belum sempat masuk labor room.. aku dah hentam telan minyak selusuh.. patutnya time sakit baru minum kan.. hahaha.. endup aku ulang toilet berpuluh kali... hambik kau.. last2 suh my hubby belikan nasi sbb lapar sgt dah (persediaan utk berjuang di labor room).. Dat time mmg tgh pagi2 buta kot.. dlm 4am++.. menu yg ada hanya laa nasi kandaq yea.. org gelisah nk bersalin.. aku lak sedap melantak nasi kandaq abis sebungkus.. hahaha..

Aku dimasukkan ke dlm labor room dlm jam 6pg, sakit kontraksi tu datang on n off.. sakitnya ya Allah.. hanya Dia yg tahu.. lebih kurang jam 8.45pg, selepas 3 kali pushing.. alhamdulillah.. lahirlaa insan yg dinanti-nanti.. Muhammad Emir Darwisy b. Muhammad Noor Amin nama diberi..

Bezanya kali nih.. dari saat awal mengandung lagi dah mcm2 dugaan yg aku perlu hadapi.. 1st trimester.. aku mengalami masalah di bahagian penting, menyebabkan kesukaran & kesakitan masa berjalan.. mmg tensen.. sakit beb.. bila pegi check pakar.. Doktor cakap ada satu point/joint yg terkoyak menyebabkan aku rasa sakit.. No solution.. di advise jgn byk berjalan.. abis nk pegi kerja camna..??

Doktor ckp slalunya kes mcm ni jadi utk 1st time mummy.. hallo.. this is my 2nd child, mcmana bole jadi.. haihhh.. heran..? Memandangkan xder ubat melainkan pain killer, aku akan berasa sakit sepanjang kandungan yea.. too bad for me.. but looking at the bright side.. pihak company menyediakan satu parking lot khas utk ibu yg mempunyai masalah.. atas surat dan nasihat doktor yea.. bukan senang nk dapat..

Lepas tu terjadi pulak kejadian turun darah.. aku sgt panik.. saat bangun tdo then tgk tshirt yg dipakai byk kesan darah.. bukan sedikit yea.. 2-3 tompok jugak laa.. huhuhu.. terus pegi check.. alhamdulillah baby sehat.. tp kedudukan uri/placenta aku di bawah. Sama jugak laa solution.. kena berehat, x bole bergerak byk.. and paling teruk.. stop SI with husband.. aiyakk.. kesian laa my weekend husband nih.. nasib baik laa hubby tersayang memahami dan sayang sgt dgn wifey dia nih.. tho kadang2 dia x reti pun nk tunjuk.. I knew u very well my dear..

2nd trimester.. still placenta problem.. mula2 check.. post 2.. kata doktor kedudukan menutup laluan bersalin.. huhu.. mmg dah scary dah.. kalo makin turun.. alamat tingkap laa kali ni.. mmg xder choice lain dah.. so MC laa berhari-hari.. duduk, makan, tdo, tgk tv jer laa aku nih.. haihh.. nasib baik lama kelamaan dari post 2.. placenta up ke post 1.. but still under monitor.. hmmm.. aku mmg kena berhati-hati sbb any aktiviti berat bole menyebabkan aku bleeding.. and kalo berlebihan aku terpaksa face premature birth/labor..xmo.. xmo.. mintak simpang laa..

Masuk 3rd trimester.. ingatkan hari semakin cerah.. rupanya hujan di tengahari.. ada few times yg aku rasa mcm ada sedikit kebocoran.. yg aku sendiri x sure sama ada white discharge or waterbag.. bila buat routine checkup.. inform nurse and doktor bertugas pasal apa yg aku rasa.. terusnya aku dihantar ke hospital menaiki ambulans.. aiyakk.. this is not de 1st time laa aku naik ambulans.. tp mmg x best.. haihhh.. dgn bunyi sirennya yg bising n kuat, van yg x stabil sampai perut aku pun rasa memusing-musing. Sudahnya di hospital, lepas 2-3 checkup yg aku kena buat.. terus kena tahan 3hari 2 malam di sana. Nasib baiklaa nurse semua baik2.. lepas keluar.. kena buat followup checkup another 2 weeks.. alhamdulillah.. resultnya just normal discharge.. no infection and no waterbag leaking.. fuhhh.. lega...

Current condition.. nmpak segalanya berjalan lancar.. placenta up.. baby at de right position.. just menanti saat turun tanda jer.. tp tu laa.. penantian itu satu penyiksaan.. inipun sebahagian dari dugaan.. aku harapkan waktu nya cepat mcm anak yg sulung.. tp hingga saat ni pun belum muncul tanda lagi.. hmm.. aku perlu bersangka baik.. pasti ada sebab kenapa belum lagi masanya.. InsyaAllah.. segala-gala ketentuan Allah pasti ada hikmahnya..

Ya Allah.. semoga kau permudahkan laa proses bersalin aku nanti.. semoga anak yg bakal dilahirkan sehat sempurna dan menjadi anak yg soleh/solehah serta menjadi mukmin yg beriman nanti.. InsyaAllah.. amin..

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Penama Takaful / Insurans: Jangan Letak Nama Anak!

Terbaca artikel pasal Penama ni dekat Cni. Hmmm.. konpius sekejab.. kena diskus balik dgn hubby and decide nk update Penama balik nih. Apakata kawan2 pun baca n sama2 la kita buat keputusan yg betul. Benda ni bukan main2. melibatkan masa depan keluarga kita seandainya apa2 terjadi pada diri kita.. Nauzubillah..

Ditulis oleh Afyan Mat Rawi

Ketika saya mula-mula menceburi kerjaya sebagai perunding takaful, dalam satu kursus yang saya hadiri, saya menerima satu maklumat yang agak mengejutkan;

"Kira-kira 80% suami akan meletakkan nama isteri mereka sebagai penama polisi takaful mereka, namun hanya kira-kira 30% isteri meletakkan nama suami mereka sebagai penama," kata pegawai latihan tersebut kepada para peserta.

Ia disambut dengan hilai tawa para peserta porgram. Baik lelaki mahupun wanita. Ada yang tersenyum-senyum, terutama wanita. Bagi peserta lelaki pula, nampak senyuman sinis di bibir mereka.

Saya pun agak sedikit terkejut dengan pendedahan tersebut.

Selepas beberapa tahun dan sehingga kini hampir sepuluh tahun saya berada di dalam industri ini, apabila diimbas sekali polisi rakan-rakan pelanggan saya sebelum, memang tidak dapat dinafikan kaum wanita akan cenderung untuk tidak meletakkan nama suami mereka sebagai penama takaful mereka.

Ya, kaum wanita yang sudah berkahwin lebih cenderung untuk meletakkan nama anak mereka sebagai penama berbanding lelaki.

Malah, sebenarnya perkara ini bukan saya berlaku di dalam memilih penama polisi takaful, ia juga melibatkan penama di dalam perkara-perkara lain. Sebagai contoh, penama Kumpulan Wang Simpanan Nasional (KWSP), selalunya wanita meletakkan nama ibu bapa mereka.

Berdasarkan maklumat yang saya perolehi, selalunya wanita akan meletakkan nama anak-anak mereka sebagai penama. Dalam kes KWSP pula, nama ibu selalunya diletakkan kerana selalunya mereka bekerja terlebih dahulu dan kemudian baru berkahwin. Selepas berkahwin, penama tersebut tidak diubah.

Isteri "Kurang" Percaya Kepada Suami?

Berdasarkan pengalaman saya berhadapan dengan pelanggan-pelanggan wanita, selalunya alasannya adalah kekhuatiran (baca: ketidakpercayaan) mereka terhadap suami mereka selepas mereka meninggal dunia nanti. Mereka khuatir suami mereka akan berkahwin lain menggunakan duit pampasan takaful mereka.

Kekhuatiran bertambah lagi apabila mereka membayangkan selepas itu suami dengan isteri barunya akan mengabaikan anak-anak kandung mereka. Juga membayangkan yang isteri baru suaminya akan bertindak tidak sewajarnya kepada anak-anak mereka.

Mereka membayangkan isteri baru suami mereka a.k.a ibu tiri anak-anak mereka laksana Rika Sumanto di dalam drama Bawang Merah Bawang Putih. Atau seperti watak Sofia di dalam Puteri Aurora Beradu suatu ketika dahulu.

Ya, satu kekhuatiran yang berasas.

Saya tidak nafikan, kekhuatiran kaum hawa tersebut ada asasnya. Demi kasih sayang ibu kepada anak, kadang-kadang mengatasi kasih sayang isteri kepada suami sendiri.

Apabila ditanya kepada isteri saya pun, begitulah juga perasaannya. Apabila ditanyakan kepada ibu saya pun begitulah halnya.

Penama Hanya Pemegang Amanah, Bukan Penerima

Namun, sebenarnya tindakan meletakkan nama anak sebagai penama tidak menyelesaikan masalah. Kerana, penama hanyalah bertindak sebagai wasi atau pemegang amanah. Penama bukanlah pemegang hak tersebut.

Ia sebenarnya telah diputuskan di dalam mesyuarat Majlis Fatwa Kebangsaan pada tahun 1978 lagi.

Fatwa tersebut berbunyi;

1. Melantik penama (Nomination) oleh orang-orang Islam dalam mana-mana badan atau institusi di mana mereka menyimpan sebarang harta adalah tidak sah untuk diterima sebagai waris yang berhak menerima pusaka si mati cuma ia adalah sebagai yang melaksanakan wasiat untuk membahagikan harta pusaka tersebut kepada para waris mengikut hukum syarak.

2. Bahawa orang-orang Islam tidak boleh melantik penama (Nominee) oleh kerana penama mengikut definisi undang-undang awam (sivil) adalah bertentangan dengan hukum syarak dan tidak sah.

3. Oleh itu udang-undang awam (sivil) yang berkenaan hendaklah dipinda supaya sebarang penamaan (Nomination) oleh seseorang Islam menjadi tidak sah. Ini bermakna peruntukan mengenai Nomination atau perlantikan nominee tidak tertakluk kepada orang-orang yang beragama Islam sama ada sesuatu Nomination itu dibuat sebelum atau selepas fatwa ini dipersetujui oleh Raja-raja Melayu.

Secara umumnya, penama hanyalah bertindak sebagai pemegang amanah sahaja.

Penama hanyalah sebagai pemegang amanah bagi harta bagi si mati sama ada pampasan takaful/insurans, wang KWSP dan lain-lain. Penama tadi bertanggung jawab untuk mengagih-agihkan harta-harta tadi kepada pewaris si mati mengikut hukum faraid.

Apabila penama yang diletakkan adalah anak di bawah umur 18 tahun, ini akan menimbulkan masalah, kerana harta tersebut akan dibekukan sehinggalah anak tersebut mencapai usia 18 tahun.

Pernah terjadi satu kes, apabila seorang lelaki meninggal dunia dan meninggalkan seorang balu dan beberapa orang anak. Beruntung balu berkenaan kerana suaminya mengambil polisi takaful. Namun apabila dibuat tuntutan, didapati penama yang diletakkan adalah nama anak-anak mereka.

Maka, wang pampasan tersebut terpaksa dibekukan sehingga penama mencapai usia 18 tahun. Lebih malang lagi, anak sulung mereka baru mencecah usia sekolah rendah. Maka, balu tadi terpaksa menunggu kira-kira sepuluh tahun selepas itu untuk membuat tuntutan sepenuhnya terhadap harta peninggalan si mati.

Justeru, berhati-hati sekiranya Tuan-tuan dan Puan-puan ingin meletakkan nama anak sebagai penama. Pastikan mereka sudah cukup umurnya 18 tahun.

Sebaiknya, letaklah nama orang yang kita terima ijab dan qabulnya sebagai pemegang amanah harta kita sesudah kita tiada.

Nota: Sekiranya tuan-puan masih mampu membaca tulisan ini, bermakna tuan-puan masih berpeluang untuk menukar nama penama tuan-puan sebelum tuan-puan pergi terlebih dahulu.

Friday, September 21, 2012

HypnoBirthing.. Apa tuh..?


Bila tiba saat2 menghitung hari, mcm2 perasaan muncul.. tho this is not the 1st time, tp pengalaman x semestinya sama.. mungkin lebih susah atau lebih mudah.. wallahuallam..
Semoga Allah permudahkan proses bersalin aku nanti.. Amin..

Skrg ni bahan2 bacaan byk menjadi teman, info2 & pengalaman menjadi pengajaran buat diri lebih bersedia. Kali ni aku tertarik dgn topic Hypnobirthing iaitu sejenis teknik penenang diri, bersedia utk bersalin tanpa bantuan ubat2an.

Mcm hypnosis.. menggunakan kuasa minda bawah sedar utk mengawal rasa sakit bersalin dan memudahkan proses bersalin.. bezanya kita buat dlm keadaan kita sedar. Melalui teknik ni, membuatkan kita percaya bahawa kelahiran baby itu adalah normal. Kita diajar melatih diri berdepan dgn kesakitan dgn cara paling relax dan bertindakbalas dgn gesaan semulajadi tubuh badan.

Frust sedikit sbb tahu pasal teknik ni di hujung2 waktu.. sbb kita perlu attend kelas yg mengajar teknik hypnobirthing ni dgn betul start from 25weeks lagi.. huhuhu.. Ni dah masuk 38weeks.. achaner tuh.. hmm..

Tp x per.. sekurang2nya belum terlambat utk ambik tahu.. dan gunakan tips2 yg ada sehabis mungkin.. lgpun kita mmg berkuasa utk mengawal minda & badan kita.. terpulang pada diri masing2 kan.. So jom.. baca sedikit sebanyak info tentang hypnobirthing ni.

About HypnoBirthing®: Source



HypnoBirthing® - The Mongan Method, is a unique method of relaxed, natural childbirth education, enhanced by hypnosis techniques, that allows women to use their natural instincts to bring about a safer, easier and more comfortable birthing in a way that most mirrors nature. Emphasis is placed on pregnancy and childbirth, as well as on pre-birth parenting and the subconsciousness of the pre-born baby. As a birthing method, HypnoBirthing® is as new as tomorrow and as old as ancient times.

Now in its 21st year, HypnoBirthing® is a complete antenatal education. Our birthing classes are intended to help you have the most natural childbirth possible, using easily-learned self hypnosis and breathing techniques. It is presented in five 2 1/2 hour childbirth classes .

Whatever birth you're planning for, be it at home, hospital or birthing centre, HypnoBirthing® can help.

 Source : Babycenter.com

I’ve heard hypnobirthing can help to make labour easier and less painful. Is this true?

Joanne Turner answers:

You may find hypnobirthing helpful. Of course, every mum's labour and birth is different. Hypnobirthing techniques aim to teach you ways to stay in control and calm during labour and birth, whatever happens.

The ideal time to start classes is between 25 weeks and 29 weeks of pregnancy. This will allow you ample time to practise. If you're already past this stage, don't be put off. You may still benefit from classes in your last weeks of pregnancy.

Hypnobirthing embraces a different attitude to the way we think and talk about labour and delivery. Your hypnobirthing teacher may talk about:
  • tightenings or surges, rather than painful contractions;
  • practice labour, rather than false labour;
  • birth breathing, rather than pushing contractions.
The idea is that the language we use can make us feel more positive about our ability to labour and birth.

At hypnobirthing classes, you'll learn about:
  • Deep relaxation and self-hypnosis. These methods can help you to stay alert, but at the same time shut out the world and focus on your body.
Hypnobirthing techniques can help you cope with labour and reduce your need for other forms of pain relief. If you're in a lot of pain, are worried or feel scared during labour, your body is likely to go into fight-or-flight mode. Stress hormones, the main one being adrenaline, will flood your body.

Adrenaline reduces the blood flow to your uterus (womb) and digestive system. Instead, your blood flows more readily to the large muscles in your limbs so that you're ready to fight or run away.

As a result, the muscles of your uterus will work less well, because they are deprived of blood and oxygen. This can make labour harder and longer. Your baby will be getting less oxygen too.

Plus, just when you most need it, the hormone that eases labour, oxytocin, is less likely to be released. Stress hormones stop your body producing oxytocin. You'll also produce fewer of the natural hormones (endorphins) which numb pain and help you feel good.

Controlling your feelings through self-hypnosis can help you to prevent these stress responses from kicking in. Hypnobirthing is thought to:
  • Help you keep higher levels of oxygen in your body because of the deep breathing techniques.
  • Increase your chance of having a straightforward vaginal birth.
If you decide to attend hypnobirthing classes, it's a good idea to bring your birth partner with you. Birth partners can sometimes feel outside the experience of labour and birth. They may be there in the room with you as you labour, but find it hard to understand what you're going through.

In hypnobirthing classes, your birth partner will learn alongside you. You will both learn breathing, relaxation and visualisation techniques. Your teacher will give your birth partner scripts to read to you at home so you can carry on practising. The idea is you become so used to the techniques, it's easy for you to bring them to mind when you need them.

Once labour starts, keeping focused can help you and your partner stay as close as you can to your birth plan. You'll need to think calmly if labour doesn't go as expected, and you need medical help to give birth.

You may find hypnobirthing techniques useful wherever you have your baby, at a birth centre, at home or in hospital. Hypnobirthing classes are run privately, so you'll have to pay for them.


Benefits from Hypnobirthing

  • Teaches deep levels of relaxation to eliminate the Fear-Tension-Pain Syndrome before, during and after birthing.
  • Greatly reduces and often eliminates the need for chemical painkillers or drugs.
  • Shortens the first phase of labor.
  • Eliminates fatigue during labor, leaving mother alert, fresh, awake, and with energy for actual birthing.
  • Eliminates risk or hyperventilation from “shallow” breathing methods, and helps keep oxygen supplied to baby during birthing.
  • Reduces the need for an episiotomy.
  • Teaches breathing techniques that allow a woman to gently breathe her baby into the world without the violence of hard, physical pushing.
  • Empowers parents with techniques to achieve a gentle, calm birth for themselves and their baby.
  • Embraces the concept of pre-birth parenting.
  • Gives the birthing companion an integral role in the birthing.
  • Promotes special bonding of mother, baby, and birthing companion.
  • Fosters more rapid postnatal recovery.
  • Returns birthing to the beautiful, peaceful experience nature intended.



Pregnancy And Birthing Affirmation


My baby is strong and healthy.
I trust my body.
My belly is full of light and love.
I am a strong and capable woman.
I have patience.
My cervix is firm and strong to hold my baby safe.
I am at peace with the world.
There is no need for us to hurry.
I have an open heart.
I am strong and calm and beautiful.
Birth is a wonderful, safe experience.
My body knows exactly what to do.
My baby feels my joy.
I trust my labor.
I am open to the energy of birth.
My baby is born in pure pleasure.
I ask for and receive what I need.
My baby is healthy.
I embrace the wisdom of my body.
I have an open heart.
I am surrounded by loving, nurturing support.
I trust my inner wisdom.
I fearlessly surrender to the power of my body.
My body is nourishing my baby perfectly.
I trust my knowing of what is true for me.
Pregnancy is a joy.
Birth comes easily to me.
I feel good being pregnant.
I am whole and at peace.
My baby loves to breastfeed.
I love being pregnant.
I am aware of my balanced, calm center.
My body knows how to birth my baby.
I have everything I need.
Breastfeeding feels wonderful.
My body becomes stronger and more flexible every day.
I listen to my body and my heart.
I am patient and composed.
I believe in birth.
I cooperate with my body and my baby.
My baby knows how to be born.
I put all fear aside as I prepare for the birth of my baby.
Untapped sources of strength are available to me.
I am relaxed and happy that my baby is finally coming to me.
My baby is free to choose her own destiny in the world.
I am focused on a smooth, easy birth.
I trust my body to know what it is to do.
I welcome my coming labor as the perfect one for me and my baby.
My mind is relaxed, my body is relaxed.
I am an active and powerful laboring woman.
I feel confident; I feel safe; I feel secure.
I welcome this opportunity to grow and change.
My muscles work in complete harmony to make birthing easier.
I desire foods that nourish me and support my health.
I relax as we move quickly and easily through each stage of birth.
My baby is in the perfect position for birth.
My cervix opens outward and allows my baby to ease down.
I am a link in the endless chain of birthing women.
I fully relax and turn my birthing over to Nature.
I am willing to release my baby into the world.
I choose a gentle and natural birth.
I see my baby coming smoothly from my womb.
My baby's birth will be easy because I am so relaxed.
My breath is easy, deep, and full.
My baby will be born at the perfect moment.
I turn my birthing over to my baby and my body.
My body knows exactly what to do.
Each surge of my body brings my baby closer to me.
My body is wise and purposeful.
I am totally relaxed and at ease.
I can handle whatever comes up.
My body remains still and limp.
I trust my intuition.
I release my birthing over to my body and my baby.
My baby is safe.
I put all fear aside and welcome by baby with happiness and joy.
I love and trust my body.
I deserve and receive all the love and support I need.
I deserve a gentle, natural birth.
I claim my birthright for a wonderful birth.
I am a wonderful mother.

Topic tentang hypnobirthing ni jugak pernah dikeluarkan oleh Majalah Pa&Ma.. tp dah lama dah.. terlepas laa sudah. huhu


Buat para ibu yg baru mengandung.. cuba2 laa mencari info tentang topik ni.. mana tau bole membantu menguatkan semangat dan diri anda ketika menghampiri detik bersalin..

: )


Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Completing my preparation checklist


Reaching my 38weeks.. Sedang menghitung hari.. checkup done and everything seems to be going well. The baby is in the head down position (ready for birth!) but because I don't yet have any labor signs and symptoms, so just say that insyaAllah I dah bersedia fizikal & mental untuk menerima kehadiran org baru kali ni at any time.. Kalo cakap pasal persediaan.. hmmm.. rasanya checklist utk mummy & baby dah nearly 100% completed yeay..

Slalunya org cakap bila datang baby kedua mesti parents akan recycle jer barang abg/kakak yg sedia ada.. Jimat mmg laa jimat.. tp kesian la pulak for baby baru kan.. kenapa kita x se-excited menerima kehadiran baby yg 1st kan.. Semua benda beli baru.. pantang nmpak jer x kira online atau offline.. nafsu membeli tu memuncak jer.. hehehehe.. tp betul jugak laa.. kalo time 1st baby.. mana laa nk ada sebarang keperluan baby.. logicnya sbg mommy to be.. kerja membeli jer la kan utk lengkapkan segala keperluan.. kan.. kan..

Kalo dulu.. sbg new Umi for my lil’ precious Darwisy.. I rasa xlaa byk sgt yg I spend utk keperluan baby kot.. maybe sbb kurang ilmu & pengalaman.. budget jugak tdk begitu mengizinkan.. so preparation yg ada setakat yg perlu jer.. no luxury items yea.. But that was 5years ago.. kali ni punya experience nak menyambut my 2nd baby rasanya sama excited mcm I nak sambut my 1st baby.. hahaha.. semua benda I nk beli baru.. alasannya senang.. gender my 2nd baby insyaAllah berlainan.. byk barang yg dah di letgo, disedekahkan kpd org lain, old stuff x sesuai utk menyambut org baru & necessary n necessity according to checklist yg ada di website2 tentang motherhood.

Jom tgk my preparation checklist.

My Baby List

Feeding
  1.  Breast pump – Manual Avent Breast Pump DONE
  2. Milk storage plastic / bottles – 10 bottles by BumbleBee & 25 plastic packs by Autumz brand DONE
  3. Cooler bag for milk - Autumnz DONE
  4. Ice pack – Autumnz DONE
  5. Feeding bottles – 1 beli satu jer from Mothercare DONE
  6. Pacifier + Holder – Not necessary
  7. Bottle brush – hmm x jumpa lagi yg I berkenan bole x.. haha
  8. Liquid wash for feeding bottles etc – Anakku liquid detergent DONE
  9. Nipple cream – Mothercare DONE
  10. Nursing pillow – My Breastfriend Nursing pillow.. I start guna during my pregnancy at 8months.. melegakan masalah tdo I.. DONE
  11. Breast pad – From Avent and Autumz DONE.. need to add some disposable type
  12. Warmer – My fren kata guna air suam pun dah cukup.. so not necessary yet
  13. Sterilizer – Ni pun I guna manual jer.. everything basuh dgn air suam
  14. Drying rack – Dah ada yg lama DONE
Bedding
  1. Baby Cot – guna yg sedia ada DONE
  2. Mattress – Sleep n Sound latex  DONE
  3. Mattress protector – guna rubber mat by Fiffy jer DONE
  4. Pillow & Bolster – Kekabu  DONE
  5. Bedding set – Disney set (Pink color) & Aussino set (Blue color) DONE
  6. Sleep Positioner - Portable BabyCot by Mothercare DONE
  7. Dresser / changing table – Not necessary
  8. Mosquito Net & Stand - KIV
Clothing
  1. Mittens & booties – New & Old stock DONE
  2. Swaddle / receiving blankets – Gugu Swaddle Pod, Baby Cocoon & Carters Sleeping Bag + Napkin yg sedia ada  DONE
  3. Clothes of all sorts itself – Short sleeves, long sleeves, jumper, rompers DONE
  4. Baby binder – Old stock & new colourful binder DONE
  5. Baby Bib – still need to add some more DONE
  6. Headbands & Leggings – Ni pun dah ada.. so maybe u guys can guess already the gender **winks DONE
  7. Socks/ Foot covers – Carters & Mothercare DONE
  8. Handkerchief – Gerbers DONE
  9. Hats/Bonnet  DONE
Diapering
  1. Nappy changing mat – guna yg sedia ada DONE
  2. Diapers for newborns -  Huggies Newborn DONE
  3. Nappy Liners - mula2 rasa not necessary.. tp lepas baca dr few komen, mcm ada kegunaan jugak. Sebabnya bole letak liner atas pampers.. so if baby poops only.. buang jer liner, then pakai balik pampers if x kena air kencing.. seep jer kan.. so DONE
  4. Wipes – Baby Kiko & Tesco brand DONE
  5. Muslin wraps / lampin – Anakku stock lama  DONE
  6. Safety Pin – Not necessary
Bathing & Grooming
  1. Bath tub – Guna yg sedia ada DONE
  2. Sponge - KIV
  3. Hooded towels – Anakku brand 2 pcs DONE
  4. Baby bath + Shampoo – Sebamed & Drypers DONE
  5. Baby lotion/ oil – Minsyam Olive lotion & Sebamed baby lotion DONE
  6. Baby Powder – Baby liquid talc by Mothercare & Chicco Protective Talcum Powder
  7. Cotton roll/buds - DONE
  8. Grooming set (baby brush, comb, toothbrush, scissors and deluxe nail clippers, With soft touch grips and compact travel case, decongester, bath thermometer and handy emery boards)   – Mothercare Ergonomic grooming set.. mahal hokey.. tp sebab Umi berkenan kena beli jugakk.. haha DONE
Baby Care
  1. Thermometer - Watson DONE
  2. Nappy Rash Cream – Sebamed  DONE
  3. Vicks- Hati2 bila nk beli Vicks yer.. bukan semua sesuai utk infant but most of them for children/toddler..
  4. Minyak yuyee / telon – Ubat berubat from Nona Roguy.. trust in Malay product DONE
  5. Tungku Baby - DONE
  6. Gripe Water/ Colic Water (utk kembung)
  7. Syringe/Medicator for Medicine
  8. Methylated Spirit (utk cuci pusat ) – tgu Doktor bagi lepas bersalin
Laundry
  1. Nappy/clothes detergent – Baby Organix  DONE
  2. Clothes hangers – Umbrella type DONE
  3. Bakul baju baby (kotor) - KIV
Travel system
  1. Stroller – KIV.. sedang tgu green lite from hubby for my wishlist stroller.. Quinny plss.. huhu
  2. Car seat – CS411 model from Sweet Cherry DONE
  3. Travel / diaper bag – KIV.. looking forward for Simple Dimple Papa bag.. sbb nk suruh my hubby yg carry.. hehehe
  4. Baby carrier – dah ada yg lama.. but still surveying carrier suitable for infant.. tgk laa nanti mcmana.. 

Now come to my own list.. keperluan & kehendak.. hehehe

Umi List 

Hospital checklist
  1. ID Card  DONE
  2. Kad Lawatan Hospital/Buku Merah  DONE
  3. Telefon Bimbit & Kamera DONE
  4. Buku/Majalah
  5. T-Shirt Lengan Panjang/Blouse DONE
  6. Kain Batik DONE
  7. Sweater
  8. Tudung Instant DONE
  9. Stoking Kaki Tebal DONE
  10. Tuala Mandi DONE
  11. Tuala Muka DONE
  12. Toiletries (Sabun, berus gigi, ubat gigi, shampu, sikat etc) DONE
  13. Kurma
  14. Air Zam zam/ selusuh
  15. Disposable Panties  DONE
  16. Maternity pads – Intimate, Pureen & Kotex
  17. Slipper -
  18. Hot water Flusk -
  19. Mug, Plate, Spoon n Fork
  20. Food - Cream crackers - DONE
Nursing
  1. Nursing Bras - DONE
  2. Breast pad – Avent & Autumz DONE
  3. Nursing blouse/shirt – supplied by Aida DONE
  4. Nursing Cover – Medan DONE
  5. Nipple Cream – Mothercare DONE
  6. tungku - DONE
  7. bengkung moden -  DONE
  8. socks - DONE
  9. kain batik - DONE
Confinement
  1. Set berpantang – Nona Roguy  DONE
  2. Nipple Cream – Mothercare DONE
  3. Tungku – Moden & Traditional DONE
  4. Bengkung moden -  DONE
 

Dear My Angel..


Umi & Abi sedaya upaya penuhi keperluan sayang mengikut kemampuan kami.. Umi, Abi & Abg Darwisy sgt excited dan x sabar nk jumpa dgn kamu.

Umi doakan sayang sentiasa sehat sampai tiba masanya.. teruskan segala aktiviti kegemaran kamu di dalam perut Umi, sbb Umi akan merindui saat2 merasa pergerakan kamu nanti.

Semoga Allah permudahkan perjalanan kita nanti.. dan keluar laa bila dah tiba masanya nanti okey.. Sama2 bantu Umi bersalin cara Normal di hujung minggu yea.. InsyaAllah.. kalo diizinkan Nya..

Lots of love..

Monday, September 10, 2012

Week 36

Dup dap dup dap dahh.. dlm hati ni.. kawan2 seangkatan geng ibu ngandung dah pun selamat melahirkan anak masing2.. Latest, Kak Nazirah on last Sunday morning.. And me.. still waiting for my turn..huhu.. Seriyesly berdebar.. tho its not the 1st time.. tp experience nya sgt laa laen.. hokey..

Dalam hati, kalo bole nk cepat jugak laa.. kaki I semakin sakit membawa berat badan yg semakin membadak nih.. Betul laa.. I sedar betapa besarnya my tummy right now.. Tp I x peduli pun sana sni org tegur how big it is.. yea yea.. I ada padang bola inside my tummy.. any problem..?? Sebab tu anak I ni aktif sgt bergerak.. dancing.. kicking.. mcm2 laa.. Tp x per.. for my own child punya comfy.. I dun mind.. pantang nanti.. kita giat usaha.. bg slim balik yea.. 

Baru2 ni kena jumpa pakar di GH due to my issue.. alhamdulillah.. kali ni punya check up semua menunjukkan +ve result.. My baby dah duduk pada posisi yg betul.. Placenta up.. Waterbag good amt.. No infection.. Doktor cakap tunggu tanda jer.. I bole bersalin.. yeayy.. I pray hard for a normal delivery too this time.. InsyaAllah..

I am at my 36 weeks ++ now..

You

Your baby begins to move downwards. The good news is breathlessness will lessen. The bad news is you’ll now feel uncomfortable down below – some mums say it’s as if a melon is about to fall out!

Your baby

As your baby’s head sinks into your pelvis, it becomes ‘engaged’, meaning he is set for birth, and will not be able to rise out of the pelvis to turn any more. Your midwife will check how many centimetres of your baby’s head can still be felt above the pelvis. Once nothing can be felt, your baby is fully engaged.

Be prepared

In case baby puts in an early appearance, get some things done to make the birth - and the early days - easier:

Fill the freezer with cooked meals.

  • Put petrol in the car and keep the tank topped up.
  • Fill a purse with change for parking at the hospital and for the phone.
  • Check the route to hospital.
  • Arrange for help from friends and relatives afterwards – especially when your partner goes back to work.

If you have an older child…

  • Sort out who’s going to look after them when you’re in hospital – and arrange a back-up just in case.
  • Buy a present for the older sibling ‘from the baby’ to ease jealousy problems.
  • Read your older child books about new babies.
  • After the birth, encourage your child to help by fetching nappies and so on, so they feel involved.
Source : Mothercare

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Start..?

Kalo ikut perkiraan di buku merah.. I dah pun genap 36 minggu skrg ni.. 9 months already.. this is the 1st time I update perkembangan sepanjang my pregnancy kali ni.. I tau, dah terlebih kembang pun.. ni dah saat2 genting rasanyaa... tp x kira.. I nk tulis gak something.. hmmm.. kat mana nk mula yea.. meh I start mcmana I tersedar I pregnant.. aci x..?

I ingat lagi bercuti panjang masa Chinese New Year.. seminggu jugak laa ambik cuti berjalan sampai Pahang-KL. Mmg plan pun sbb nk attend my cousin punya wedding di Pahang dgn my parents & sibling.. Next cita, I nk story mori pasai perkampungan kami di sana.. hehehe

Balik dari Pahang jalan sakan dgn my siblings ke Bkt Tinggi & Genting Highland.. bila dah jalan sakan.. gedix bergambar pun kena laa sakan kan.. tambah dgn my siblings yg sekepala.. mcm2 aksi & gaya laa.. 1 thing yg I noticed, gambar I semua nmpak bulat/chubby, sooo not pleasant to my eyes .. I gain weight ke..? padahal I dok pergi Dr. Nano’s punya treatment once a month.. agak pelik for me.. but I but dunno jer.. maybe sbb I makan byk lauk sedap kot..nafsu makan x control..

Lepas my parents & siblings balik Kedah, I sambung cuti dgn my hubby di KL (rumah sewa my hubby).. bersiar- siar jugak laa kitorang waktu malam kan.. tp I cepat sgt exhausted.. berdiri lama I rasa kepala pusing.. damn.. rasa mcm x best jaa nk jalan2 this round.. haihh..

Balik dari KL kat rumah I start having flu, fever, coughing.. mcm2 ada nih.. Rasanya berjangkit dgn Darwisy.. kesian laa my boy kena hi fever lepas balik dari I-CITY snow walk. Agaknya body x bole adapt dgn tahap sejuk yg melampau.. terkejut then demam panas.. mcmana nk pegi oversea nih sayang.. haihh.. hehehe

Body I nih seperti biasa.. agak jarang2 kena demam.. but once bila dah kena mmg agak teruk & berpanjangan.. So nk jadi citer, I balik dari KL jer terus demam, selsema, batuk x berhenti, weak sgt sampai 2 minggu.. ubat pun dah bertukar dari Dr Azhar ke Dr Akram sama jer.. on off jer my sakit nih.. until laa one day.. I tergerak hati nk buat pregnancy test.

I ingat lagi dat day ari minggu sbb my hubby ada kat rumah.. blom pun bangun tdo.. kebetulan I ada satu lagi tester dlm simpanan, so just give a try laa.. Bila I buat test tu.. dlm hati ada terdetik.. alaa mesti –ve nih mcm sebelum ni jugak.. hmmm..

Tp bila result tu menjalar dari 1st line ke 2nd line.. I mula rasa pelik.. dup dap dup dap.. betul ke nih.. rasa mcm tester ni expired kot.. hahaha.. ada ker..? terus kejut my hubby cepat2 and tunjuk result tester tu. My hubby punya expression dat time.. “Kenapa..? Abis tu..?” Maybe sbb my hubby tu belum lagi kembali ke alam nyata.. so dia xtau mcmana I nih tengah tergezut.. 

During past 2years.. I mmg excited and hoping for positive result everytime buat test.. but kali ni, mmg totally unexpected.. I dun even feel its true pun.. huhuhu.. Then my hubby pujuk I.. ajak I pergi buat scan terus dat afternoon.. bagi pueh ati.. hehehe.. tenkiu dear..

Petang tu jugak kitorang balik SP, pegi Klinik Dr. Husna buat check up & scanning.. confirm dat day I mmg positive pregnant around 2 weeks.. Alhamdulillah.. then balik rumah dgn hati berbunga-bunga.. winks**

Lamanyaa....

Perghh.. lama giler kot x update blog.. laman sesawang pun dah bersawang bagai dah ni.. haihh.. itu laa keadaannya bila pemilik blog x berapa menentu emosi nya.. huhuhu..
Skrg ni I agak mengasingkan diri dari dunia cyber sebenarnya.. jgn kata Blog, FB pun payah nk masuk.. padahal streamix kat rumah dok bayar saja jaa, guna x pun.. (kaya laa TM net bulan2)..

As per previous entry.. ramai dah tau.. I skrg ni berbadan 2 (anak kedua).. alhamdulillah.. rezeki yg dinanti-nanti.. maklum laa usia pun bukan makin muda kan.. so kena pulun awai2 org kata.. hehehe..

Banyak momen yg I nak capture dlm blog I ni.. tau dah.. mmg cita basi semuanya.. but for me.. each moment create special feelings.. dlm keadaan skrg, RAM makin menurun, so memory space rasanya kadang2 out of memory.. dah jadi mcm mak nenek dah.. semua benda cepat lupa.. haihhh.. sbb tu laa I kena download balik memory yg tinggal ke dlm blog kesayangan ni.. supaya I bole kenang2 balik di masa hadapan.. kalo my lil prince tanya citer/kejadian yg lepas bila dan di mana, x laa terkumat kamit terkebil-kebil umi dia nk perah otak nak ingat balik memori silam kan.. hehehe

Enuf utk entry permulaan ni.. I nak cita benda lain pulak dlm entry lain.. hik hik..

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

+ve

Bila usia semakin meningkat.. diri menjadi semakin matang.. byk perkara yg berlaku.. suka duka.. pahit manis.. susah senang.. lebih byk berpkir dan terima dari sudut positif.. Berfikir secara Positif adalah kekuatan dalaman yg membentuk emosi & mental diriku..

Dan kerana positif itu jugak laa byk perkara yg diharapkan tp belum kesampaian ku terima dgn redha.. Allah lebih tahu setiap kebaikan umatnya.. InsyaAllah..

Kelmarin (05022012).. keputusan positif yg agak mengejutkan telah ku terima.. agak lama jugak ku nanti.. berita yg menggembirakan hati.. pernah aku berputus asa, tp dari sudut positif nya aku terima.. belum sampai masanya... dan kini ia hadir x terduga membawa cahaya..

Ya Allah.. kuatkan laa emosi & fizikal ku.. anugerah yg kau beri x ternilai harganya.. kuatkan & lindungi laa ia hingga sampai masanya.. Amin..

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Recap of 2011

Sepanjang tahun 2011 byk suka duka yg berlangsung.. biasa laa manusia ni x lepas dari ujian, anugerah, rezeki dan jodoh yg ditentukan.. Memandangkan I ni terlebih RAJIN.. ehemm.. nk mengupdatekan blog ni.. so 1st entry for this year.. nk recap those valueable memory & history.. yg dah berlaku dlm life I..


My Style..
Kalo ada yg perasan.. I mula menukar imej baru awal tahun 2011.. dari segi pakaian.. I mula minat dress2 Vintage.. yg ada cutting, sedikit kembang, design, corak yg unik & paling penting nmpak lebih sopan .. I jugak berani bereksperimentasi dgn cara pemakaian tudung.. being typical Me, I like to be Unique and not boring.. Its true.. my hijab style dah mula nmpak mcm Yuna, Hana Tajima, Maria Elena or Shea Rasol.. they look fab in their hijab.. and yes.. I’m duplicating them BUT I try my best to suit it with MY style.. kalo anda2 yg suka cara I ni.. you also can try.. its Nothing wrong to be & look Pretty anyway.. Tp biasa laa.. bila anda cuba buat sesuatu yg baru.. pasti ada yg suka.. ada pulak yg mencela.. I x pernah kesah pun.. because ‘its on my own’.. x pernah pinjam duit org pun.. Paling penting My Dearest Hubby suka and makin sayang… ahakss..

Makin Jauh
Dah sedia maklum, I ni salah seorang ahli kelab PJJ (perkahwinan jarak jauh).. tp 2011 dah membawa my hubby makin jauh lagi.. huhuhuu.. eh eh.. jauh di mata dekat di hati yea… lidah tergigit sekali sekala jer.. slalu gigit manja jaa.. hahahaha (oOpsss terlucah sudah.. ) back to the point, dari Lumut skrg dah berhijrah ke KL.. jarak makin jauh.. dan rindu pun semakin kuat.. nama pun rezeki.. so redha jer laa.. janji my hubby balik tiap2 minggu.. yeaaaa… abis kerja jer terus loncat naik bas balik Utara.. love you doublesssss.. muah muah muahhh..

Kenduri oo Kenduri
Aktiviti wajib sepanjang zaman.. hahahaha.. kalo dolu2 masa remaja.. my parents jer yg byk memenuhi undangan kenduri.. bila dah kahwin, baru laa belajar dgn my MIL.. menghargai setiap jemputan.. susah mcmana pun.. jauh atau dekat.. mesti cuba hadirkan diri. Paling busuk pun.. kalo dah payah sgt.. kirim jer wang sumbangan dekat org2 yg nk pegi.


Authentic collections..
I ni suka laa sgt buat collection baju, aksesori, kasut and paling yummeh.. handbags.. sebelum2 ni I just pakai local brand yg biasa2 ajer.. sbb senang nk beli dekat shopping mall.. but for the 1st time this year.. I mula beli Calvin Klein, Coach, MBMJ & DKNY.. wallah…. Bukan mengada-ngada or menunjuk yea.. but kepuasan.. utk DIRI SENDIRI.. bukan nk puaskan hati org lain.. ‘Ko ingat Chef Wan kesah’..?? hihihi..

Pergi x diduga
Kita yg hidup.. pasti suatu hari akan pergi jua.. masa saja belum tentu bila.. dan sepanjang tahun.. ada saja sedara mara yg pergi menghadap Ilahi.. Innalillah.. Paling x dpt dilupakan.. kemalangan yg meragut nyawa Ninie Yusof, cousin my husband di Kulim. Ketika sarat mengandung 9 bulan, ketika berhenti di traffic light ketika Merah bersama suami & bapa sedara. Lori tanah aka lori hantu yg ntah datang dari mana, memandu dlm keadaan merbahaya telah menyebabkan kemalangan & kematian. Kejadian tersebut betul2 terkesan di hati keluarga, teman, sedara & penduduk yg mengenali beliau.

Begitu jugak pemergian Pak Wo yg rapat dgn keluarga kami.. terlibat dgn kemalangan motor & anjing lalu menyebabkan pendarahan serius. Sayu jer bila tgk Mak Wo yg kehilangan org tersayang.. berkahwin sejak berusia 15thn dan bertahan hingga umur beliau 70 tahun.. kasih sayang mereka kekal hingga akhir hayat..
Al- Fatihah buat mereka yg telah pergi..

Nephew & Niece
Life must go on.. yg pergi tetap pergi.. yg baru hadir dlm hidup kita pulak dirai.. Now, Darwisy dah ada 1st cousin (sebelah Umi).. Dhia Damia.. anak adik I yg ke5. Seterusnya cousin sebelah Abi plak bertambah bila my SIL yg ke3 melahirkan anak lelakinya yg ke3, Amzar Munawar. Bila Umi tanya Darwisy.. nak baby ke.. dia jawab ‘TAK NAK’.. haihhhh….


Gunung itu ku daki..
Akhirnya, for the 1st time.. I Berjaya pujuk my hubby bawak I bercuti di Gunung Jerai.. teruja nih.. (mcm best sgttt..) hahaha.. maklumlaa dah puluhan tahun menetap di Kedah.. tp Gunung tertinggi pun x pernah sampai.. bukan ke satu kepelikan..? Skrg I dah boleh eksyen dah.. part yg lawaknya.. I jadi promoter x berbayar pulak utk kengkawan.. ‘Mari lah kita melawat Gunung Jerai’… semua ni gara2 gambar posing me & my son ala2 melancong over sea.. hahaha..

Floating Library
Dah laaaaaaaaaaaaamaaaa kot xpergi library ni sejak2 meninggalkan zaman persekolahan.. Tetiba ajak ke library.. mmm.. yg menariknya atas cruise beb and its FREE.. satu sebab kuat kenapa harus kembali ke library.. kekekeke.. anyway, floating library ni actually organized by mat saleh utk tujuan kristianity diorang.. kalo dgr mmg la mcm x best.. but peluang u utk membeli buku2 ilmu dgn harga yg murah.. rasanya cannot resist kot.. furthermore, atas cruise.. jakunist mcm I ni mmg laa nk meloncat tinggi2 bila dpt peluang mcm ni kan. Selalu kalo lalu dari jeti ke padang kota, jeling2 jer cruise2 yg berlabuh.. ditambah sungutan yg dengar x dengar 'bila laa aku nk merasa naik cruise ni'... haa.. skrg I dah tau dah, mcmana rasanya naik cruise (walaupun sekadar berlabuh di tepian).. FYI, floating library ni akan muncul di perairan M'sia selang 3-4years.. bila dah datang tu.. cepat2 laa ambik tempat anda yea..

 
 Family Getaway
Skrg dah jadi 1 aktiviti wajib.. Bekerja itu penting.. beriadah jugak satu kemestian.. kalo ada cuti panjang + cuti sekolah.. mesti ada plan2 nk ikut family in laws ni bercuti.. Kalo last year.. Sabah menjadi pilihan.. this year pilih tempat paling dekat.. cer teka.. cer teka… nk nyanyi lagu Boria Pulau Pinang aci x..? kekekekeee

Pindah
Citer bosan.. kena pindah tempat duduk yg dah lama sebati dgn diri di Office ke tempat baru.. (buat2 muka ceria).. arghhh malas nk komen panjang.. ada pulak yg menggeletis x tentu pasal terasa mcm ada kaitan sgt dgn issue ni.. sendiri yg mai baca.. sendiri yg terasa.. tersangat laa PELIK kan.. tp kePELIKAN ini milik org2 tertentu saja.. ada sesetengah Org atau Beruang ni x tau nk guna Cermin..  x sedar salah sendiri.. sbb tu suka cari pasal & salah org lain.. apa kata propose jer kat diri sendiri duduk dlm hutan, xpayah bercampur dgn org lain.. semoga hati jadi lebih bersih yea… hua hua huaa


Bufday Celebration
Beruntung tau ada BFF yg pandai masak Kek sodap giler.. hingga menjilat hujung jari.. yummeh babehh.. bila smpai buf date jer.. cam x bopa happy sbb rasa diri sudah tua.. tp disebabkan BFF kesayangan yg giler2 ala2 kanak2 minum Ribena ni.. rasa cam nk celebrate kerap2 pun ada.. hahaha.. Darwisy this year baru masuk 4thn.. siap dpt 2 kek lagi.. my hubby xdpt kek.. but dpt special present.. (I pun dpt hadiah best jugakk.. rasa nk jerit.. ) ehem ehemm.. anyway, I love you ladies & guys a lotssssssss.. muah muahh…

Festive Celebration..
Jgn salah tafsir dgn sub title.. as a Muslim of course laa I celebrate Hari Raya Aidilfitri & AidilAdha saja.. but bagi menghormati kawan2 berlainan agama.. I tetap join celebration yg dianjurkan di office, dgn  syarat suh I pegi makan jer.. jgn suh I buat benda2 lain.. hahaha.. makanan itu Fokus utama yea kawan2.. hehehe.. yg penting sumbernya HALAL..

Dinner 2011
Tahun ni punya theme sgt simple.. 'WHITE' color.. I yg dah biasa mengmakeoverkan diri dgn tema2 susah ni, mula2 rasa spoil jugak laa.. hampir2 hilang rasa nk pegi pun ada.. but being Me.. as usual.. I wont be usual as other people laa.. kadang2 benda yg senang ni laa yg susah.. sbb terlampau simple, org yg complex mcm I ni jadi laa susah.. hasilnya malam tu.. jadilaa I bintang K-POP for 1 nite.. hahaha.. siap dapat most sporting chick.. Sporting ker..? hmmm.. anyway, overall performance was fun, lite n easy matching with the dinner theme, food.. mmm.. x kena dgn anak tekak I sgt.. yg penting everybody happy dat nite.. tp malangnya seperti tahun sebelumnya I x lucky pun bila masuk part luckydraw.. huhuhuu


Itu la dia corat coret.. cerita ceriti... suka duka.. warna warni.. tahun 2011.. Alhamdulillah.. segalanya dilalui dgn redha.. Buat tahun 2012.. kita mulakan dgn Bismillah.. semoga perjalanan yg bakal dilalui nanti.. dirahmati oleh Allah hendaknya.. InsyaAllah.. amin...



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A twenty something lady, who drives 45minutes to works everyday.. Proud to be wife to incredibly loving and supportive husband (Mr.Amin) and blessed with a lovely charming lil' prince (Darwisy).

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